For the last half dozen years or so three dear friends (and colleagues) have been working with me to create a whole new approach to congregational men’s ministry. We call it “Full Sail: Men Ministering to Men.” For the first time since we began our work together John Opsata, David Holden, Ed Huckleberry and I are all living in Kentucky within an hour of each other. This has given us the opportunity to begin meeting together to complete this vital work. This fall we will launch “Full Sail.”
There is an obvious reason why this ministry is so vital to our congregations today. Men are our congregations’ most notable absentees. Men have found most mainline congregations unfriendly places, at least with respect to meeting the unique needs that most men in Western cultures have. “Full Sail” addresses this reality head on.
There is a more compelling reason why this ministry is so vitally important. Our political system, democracy, is a system of competition where ideologies and personalities compete against each other for the most votes. Our economic system, capitalism, is also a system of competition where corporations and businesses compete against each other for the purchase of their products by you and me. As I learned in Mr. Lehman’s high school Econ class, “the key to capitalism is competition.” Competition is the foundation upon which just about all the decisions that impact our lives are made.
There are many plusses to all this. Competition unleashes creativity and innovation. It stimulates finding solutions to difficult challenges. It improves the products we depend upon. Competition has a lot of upside. It is a necessary stepping stone to our maturation as a people.
There is a dark side to competition as well. Competition, as expressed through capitalism, is destroying our planet and its inhabitants. Because capitalism has no moral compass, no conscience, those who play the competitive game of capitalism do not stop to ask the questions about the long-range outcomes of their decisions. Global warming is a prime example. The burning of fossil fuels (coal, petroleum, natural gas) is causing irreparable harm to planet earth in ways that are just now coming to light. All models of the possible scenarios that lie ahead have a doomsday ring. If capitalism had a moral compass, a conscience, then the corporate energy suppliers long ago would have begun developing and employing clean energy sources to meet the world’s energy needs. We would now be a clean energy economy. Thirty square miles of the mountain tops of Appalachia would still be in place. Obviously, that has not happened.
If capitalism had a moral compass, a conscience, there would be no poverty in our world or epidemics of treatable diseases. Global conglomerates and governments would work together to make distribution of the food and medicines they produce a priority so that all people’s basic needs would be met. If capitalism had a moral compass, a conscience, then the ideology of the board rooms would shift from “making a windfall profit regardless of the long-range consequences” to ”making a profit while meeting the base needs of the world’s global citizens.”
If capitalism had a moral compass, a conscience, the health care debate in the US would be over. The conversation would now start with the goal of “meeting the health care needs of all people in the most cost effective way” rather than the goal of maximizing the “profit needs of the stock holders of the insurance companies.”
It makes me wonder, do the stockholders of these corporations have a moral compass, a conscience? Their actions certainly suggest they don’t. Yet, my guess is that many of these individuals attend a church or synagogue. That these same individuals are regularly exposed to the principles of justice and righteousness upon which the Judeo-Christian tradition is grounded. So where is the disconnect?
The disconnect is found among us, the purveyors of the principles of the Judeo-Christian tradition. We have allowed ourselves to be seduced into believing that the competition-based approach to life is somehow consistent with the teachings of Jesus of Nazareth and the prophets of the Hebrew scriptures. We have made it the normative behavior for all. We have been seduced into believing that the measure of our worth is found externally in what we have achieved or conquered. Yet this way of measuring self-worth impedes our journey to the more mature expectation of God that measures us by the development of the internal qualities of the other-centered life through how we exercise our citizenship in the kin-dom of God. The “Full Sail” ministry goes to great pains to point out that it is from a worldly mentality of competition that Jesus came to save us. It strives to teach us that God’s way is to level the playing field. God’s way is to love all equally. God’s way is to remove the barriers that divide us and the structures, attitudes and behaviors that diminish and demean us. God’s way is to create environments where all the people, all creation within our individual realms of influence can discover their God-given potential and be nurtured and supported in realizing it. Competition is not God’s way.
“Full Sail” is not designed to remove competition from our world. Far from it. It is a necessary ingredient. “Full Sail” does attempt to create a different foundation from which to live our lives where competition is understood as a tool rather than a way of life. It seeks to ground us in a much more mature understanding of life that helps us see that you and I (men and women) are created by God to be the moral compass, the conscience of our world called to appropriately preserve, protect, and nurture all life and live sustainably within the balanced confines of the world God so loves. I pray it is not too little too late.